5 Easy Ways to Happiness

Ladies! Yes, I know we face a lot, in our day to day routine. Every time we are going through some or the other challenge and trust me its okay to be annoyed sometime. Its okay and normal. It is important that we take life as it comes to us and celebrate it. Yes, you could be going through a severe mental trauma, but never forget that this is not the first time, you have faced it before and survived very well. So, celebrate, you are on the next level, and this time it might hit you harder but now you know the trick so it’s easy. Say Cheers to life and live it.Here I am sharing a few hacks that help you to be a better person, not for anyone to yourself. Tried and tested, trust me it works

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APPRECIATE YOURSELF

Swamped with responsibilities, cultural ethics, work pressure, love and family issues, there is a lot of things that keep floating inside you at a time. It is normal. The brain of a woman is structure to handle multiple tasks simultaneously. But in the mess somewhere we forget something which is most important, which you in yourself. Never demean your value, you are a power-packed superwoman and you don’t wait for appreciations. Appreciate yourself, YOU don’t need anyone.

GET A HOBBY

Each one of us is blessed with something that gives us that divine peace. Think about it, what is that one thing that unlinks you from this plasticity of the world and you log into your own blissful world. It could be writing, traveling, cooking, gardening, even talking. Find it and make sure you always take time for your hobby.

EXERCISE

Not because you have to fit into that slim fit dress and walk on the ramp but because you are supposed to take care of yourself. Exercising not only keeps you fit and healthy but it also helps as an anti-depressant for you. You are more confident and hence things around you automatically turn bright and flamboyant. And not to forget that slim fit dress, yes you can make it happen!

HANGOUT

meet people, talk to them, know whats going on outside your ecosystem. It could be frequent or once in a while but it helps. It helps you to discover those points where you are doing better than others at the same time where you can help others to improve. It is important, talking does half of the work when it comes to solving a problem. Others opinion matters, though the decision is all yours

GET UP EARLY

I know this sounds really like your MOM but trust me it works. Getting up early helps you sort your day. You have time to exercise, meditate, sort out the things and then start the day. I know it is difficult especially to those who run through a hectic daily routine and battle with the road traffic, but once you put in a habit, it will automatically make you realize how positivity boosts when you get up early in mornings. Try to start with 15 mins and gradually you will move backward and be able to make it at six in the morning.

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Why Is It Important To Groom Your Hobbies

I booked a bike taxi last evening, it was cheaper and faster compared to other modes, zipped me through the traffic and I could save money and have my favorite ice-cream. But I am not here to promote a bike taxi, but what I found interesting, something that left me totally astonished was to see a lady biker at my doorstep. I was obviously more comfortable with her, and the trip was perfect. She was an absolutely professional lady and responsible driver. The wrinkles on her face and rage in her eyes said it all. She is not just carrying me but she was carrying multiple responsibilities in life. I talked with us for a while when she tells me that she lost her husband as he was alcoholic, she has a 10-year-old son and mother in law to take care of at home. She used to stealthily ride her dad’s bike back when she wasn’t married, and her love for bikes is helping her to choose a career for the living. I felt elated to see this tough role chosen by her, overriding the cliché that ‘woman’s place is in the home’ and ‘woman is a bad driver’.

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We have seen female workers in almost every profession, and now seeing this lady on roads with her bike fills me with gratification.

We’ve been watching campaigns around lady Bikers Exploring The Himalayas or doing Some Crazy Road Trips, and we’ve admired them but what makes me proud is lady bikers now helping commuters to struggle the traffic, and earning for their living.

The bottom line is every woman should be educated and trained as per her skills and interests. She should not be depending on anyone for her living. Ganga wasn’t educated but because she knew how to drive she was able to handle the tough phase of her life.

It is not necessary to sit in a multistory building with a laptop by your side, there are multiple options in the world that a woman can opt for. Especially the housemakers, who are often demeaned as non-working, I suggest you can pick any hobbies from your childhood, take some training and start taking small assignments. Financial independent matters a lot, it makes you independent and powerful.

Never forget, he choose you to be a woman, a woman is not just a gender but a very special character. Office, kitchen, groceries, toiletries, homework of your son, the wardrobe of your husband, medicines of your father in law, and that saree you wanted to get for your mother. Siblings, relatives, friends, kids, colleagues, you manage everything simultaneously. you were chosen for this tough role, so choose a better life for yourself, never demean yourself and keep yourself motivated. Pick a hobby and gradually make it your profession. Little steps matter.